Nothing is Better

Sometime it's better to do nothing than to do anything at all. You ever notice when you say something maybe you shouldn't have said, then try to correct yourself, you end up saying something worse instead? Ouch, it pretty much sucks, and we've all done it, right? 

This goes with relationships in life too. Some relationships are better left alone to fizzle out, or be done with completely. With internet, facebook, myspace, twitter, texting, voicemail, email, and on and on, it's hard to just leave things alone. 

Heavenly Father will forgive us if we ask Him, but will we forgive ourselves? 

It's can be hard to ask for forgiveness, even from our Heavenly Father, but sometimes it's even harder to ask it form someone else. Especially if that person would rather you never talk to them again, because either they don't care, or they are still very upset. With people that are upset, they eventually come around sooner or later. With people who just don't care, well, then it's no longer asking that person for forgiveness, but forgiving yourself. Accepting the situation for whatever it may be, and moving on. The more we push the situation, the worse it gets when someone would rather you drop the situation than bring it up again. 

I struggle with accepting things as they are. I feel as though I have the control to make things all better. Most often, I just need to make things okay with myself. To know not everyone is going to accept who I am or where I am coming from. Not everyone has to love me or even accept me. The only person that really needs to be okay with me, is me. I'm the only one who needs to be with myself day-in and day-out. So why should other's opinions of who we are or what we believe really matter?